Friday, February 8, 2013

A Language Just For The Two Of Us



I have removed the content of the previous post, it makes me appear foolish and desperate, which is how I feel lately … but I must keep some dignity. The outpouring of my feelings was not a good idea, I was trying to reach out to him and remind him of some of the many lovely words he has said to me in happier times. It was a language just for the two of us; something we once shared. I hoped he would visit and see but the chances of that happening were very remote. The flowers in the previous post are amongst many I have picked for my friend when he was down and unhappy…those and an understanding heart and words of comfort for him. Some people don’t appreciate anything you do for them; they just trample all over your feelings when you are not needed any more. I don’t think he realises how sensitive I am and how much he has hurt me, but he should. Anyway, I think it is all too late now, he has gone and it is sad to hold onto any hope when there is none.

When I am feeling more calm and less hurt, I hope to write a poem or a post which will be more positive.
I thank all of you for your constant support and lovely comments, you are all important to me. 

Your friend, Dianne ... ♡ 
 
This image is an Australian winter sky which I photographed from my garden a few years back, please enlarge for a better view.                                                                                                                                                


28 comments:

foam said...

❤❤❤

dianne said...

Thak you dearest Foamy , you are very thoughtful"little sweet pea".

xoxoxo ♡

JUAN FUENTES said...

Los vaaivenes de tus sentimientos no te dejan tranquilizarlos.
Algun dia tendrás que poner solución a ellos.
No se debe vivir siempre con esas anguatias.
Abrazos

Elia said...

❤❤sweet Dianne
first tell you, that photo is awesome Australian sky,
photography is beautiful, I love ...

I want to share my prize with you, for your sweet heart, to paint in colors Friday in your heaven, your heart is quiet and accept this change.
I'm sure that life holds many joys and now have to accept this coup.
But life goes on and you have to keep painting smiles, is an order, you have all the friendliness of the people who follow you through the blog and your friends.

kisses with positive energy

^^

Giga said...

Czasami są chwile słabości i uczucia biorą górę. Tak sie chyba stało z Tobą. Pozdrawiam.
Sometimes there are moments of weakness and feelings prevail. So probably happened to you. Yours.

Leovi said...

Writing about feelings helps aa free and knowing oneself.
Besos.

dianne said...

Gracias, querido Juan por sus amables palabras, no, yo no debería tener que sufrir esta angustia, tengo que configurar mi mismo libre.

Abrazos

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dearest Elia , I am so happy that you love the photo of my Australian sky, it is very beautiful, such a lovely blue, with some sunshine, the last of Autumn's leaves still hanging on and a hint of cloud.
Also for your thoughtful words, yes, I must accept this change...everything was fine until three weeks ago and now I don't know why I am being ignored and I am in such a state of confusion and sadness...but you are right, I have to get through this as best as I can.
I want to feel the warmth of happiness again, to be able to smile.
I appreciate you and all of the friends who come here with their kind words.
Thank you for everything you do for me.

Besos ^^
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Tak drodzy Giga , to był moment słabości, ale te uczucia i wspomnienia wydają się być nieusuwalne i nie są łatwe do zapomnienia.
Dziękuję za miłe słowa.
ciepłe pozdrowienia
xoxoxo ♡

Yes dear Giga , it was a moment of weakness but these feelings and memories seem to be indelible and are not easy to forget.
Thank you for your kind words.
Warm greetings

xoxoxo ♡
xoxoxo ♡

Łucja-Maria said...

DIANNE!!!
Well done that you threw the previous post!
You are very brave.
Happiness and joy come to you quickly.
I send you one million kisses.
I wish you a nicer Saturday.
Regards
Lucia.

dianne said...

Thank you dear Leovi for your kind words, yes, writing down our feelings helps free us and to understand oneself better.
I have realised one thing, if another woman comes to me for help concerning her feelings or so- called love for my friend, I will not be so helpful next time as this has cost me dearly.
Besos
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Lucia for your thoughtful words and those lovely kisses.
Yes, removing that post was a good thing to do, I thought about it overnight and realised I should remove it.
I hope some happiness does come to me soon.
Have a lovely weekend.
Kind regards,
Dianne. xoxoxo ♡

Antonio Machado said...

Hello Dianne,
talk about our sadness is valid.
We are all sad at times.
But it really is best to overcome the problems and rediscover the joy!
After all life is worth it if you're happy!
A big hug and sincere desire for peace for you

dianne said...

Thank you dear Antonio for your thoughtful words and kind advice.
I too wish to be happy, life is difficult enough with all of its problems, I long for some joy.
Sometimes we have to write our messages in a public forum, I was wishing to reach out to someone but he has chosen not see.

Big hugs for you too.

xoxoxo ♡

Magia da Inês said...

º° ✿彡
Olá, amiga!
Todos nós, como seres humanos somos incompletos, às vezes estamos alegres ou muito tristes.
O tempo cura qualquer ferida e ainda podemos ser felizes com as pequenas coisas do dia a dia.
Observando ao nosso redor, vemos tantas belezas, como as flores e os pássaros que são as jóias que Deus nos presenteou ou como o belo céu da sua fotografia.
Bom fim de semana!
Anime-se! Você tem amigos e poderá sempre contar comigo.
Beijinhos do Brasil.
✿ °•.¸
¸.•°♡⊱彡

Leovi said...

Dianne thank you very much, I'm sure your feelings will still creating beautiful poems.
Besos.

Patrycja Photography said...

I love this post !!! :)) Yours. Have a nice weekend.

dianne said...

Olá querida Inês , como você é doce, obrigado por suas palavras atenciosas. Sim como um ser humano, eu sou incompleto com muitas imperfeições.
Espero que o tempo vai curar minhas feridas. Há muita beleza ainda em torno de mim, as flores, os pássaros, as árvores, o céu, estes ainda me dão alguma esperança de ir em frente.
Vou animar eventualmente, é bom saber que tenho amigos como você que se importam e como muitos outros que vist aqui com suas palavras de bondade e sabedoria.

Beijos de Sydney

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Leovi dear friend, you don't have to thank me, I thank you for your constant support and kind words.
I don't know about my poetry any more, I cannot feel the words now.
Besos
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Patrycja for your kind words, I don't know why you love this post, there is nothing remarkable about it, just sadness.
Have a nice weekend too!
Yours.
xoxoxo ♡

Laura Jannika said...

I a so sorry....I have a man who does not open up. I put my feeling in a blog post,but I save it in draft form so noone can see it. I can see it when i need to. You sound like a lovely person, you truly know the power of the flower and the trees.

MARTY said...

these images are gorgeous Dianne !
Trees can give us so much energy !
wish you a nice week
bisous

JUAN FUENTES said...

Al escribir sobre tu arbol preferido y tus sentimiento hacia él,conseguiste hacer un relato de tu vida,con tus nostálgias incluidas.
Un fuerte abrazo

dianne said...

Thank you dear Laura for your kind words. It is difficult when a man will only open up to you so much, sadly he has gone now...so many words left unsaid.
It is good that you put your feelings into words, yours to look at where only you can see them.
I am a loving a gentle person and I find much beauty and comfort in the power of trees and flowers.

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Marty for your kind words, yes, trees hold so much positive energy.
bisous
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Gracias Juan querido amigo, mis poemas acerca de los árboles, el amor y él son la historia de mi vida.
Abrazos

xoxoxo ♡

Craftsman of light said...


Hello Dear Dianne,
The comment i was just doing got wiped out....
yes, so i was just quoting Rumi, who says,

' a wound is a place where we ought to bring our light....'

Sometimes, our expectations and rigour are our 'shortcomings' disguised, perhaps, a manner of asking us to resolve something that which has been within us since a long time....aching.

Affection... is the sunshine of our soul,
and it does'nt come from just one person if we 're willing to see it.

it does'nt have just one form, one face....
we understand this better when our emotions move away from the weight of our hearts towards the light of the soul.

This does'nt mean we shall become a monk or a nun.
It only means that we can shift from the axis we are clinging to and feel free to live harmoniously and feel fuller again.

that is what i believe we 're here for...

dianne said...

Thank you dear col for these thoughts of beauty and comfort...you have a beautiful soul.

Yes, I know about expectations and how they can have a negative effect when they are not met.
I must look more carefully at what I do have and be grateful for that.
Affection is a very strong force, something we all need and no it does not have to come from one source.
I have to stop clinging to old memories and expectations, perhaps then I will feel free and whole again.
hugs
Dianne
xoxoxo ♡