Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Real and Vividly Imagined - A Message for My Friend


I have removed the original content of this post, it was not one of my better ideas. I should not have to reach out to you my friend and explain myself to you. You should know me by now and realise that I would not do anything to interfere in your potential happiness. You have disappeared, I have been trying to contact you, there has been a misunderstanding and I am not responsible for any of your unhappiness. You know I was brought into this situation unwillingly and without any thought for my own feelings I tried to help you and your new friend. I am sorry it has not worked out as you had wished. I had no influence on her decision.
This unfortunate situation has been going on for weeks and in trying to help you both I am now sad, confused, ill and I don't know what to believe any more.
Take care, Dianne

34 comments:

JUAN FUENTES said...

Tus sentimientos y tu interior desamparo hacen que tus escritos solo sean un desgarro de tu persona.
Abrazos

MARTY said...

sometimes we cannot understand why, what happened ? perhaps try to live without at last and begin something new and quiet ! not easy, but one day you have no more tears and life goes on. hope it
wish you nice days dianne !

Leovi said...

In this letter very clear that only let you and persecute the truth. Besos.

Łucja-Maria said...

Dianne!
Sorry. To lose a loved one, friend ...
Someone who loved ...
Or maybe he was not worthy of your love?
I cordially greet.
Kisses.
  Lucia.

findingmywingsinlife said...

Its been a long time since I've commented on any of my blog friend's pages, and for that I apologize. I understand this pain though, the pain of having a friend no longer talk to you, especially because of misunderstandings. I do not know who the friend might be, but the description reminds me of another blogger we both used to talk to several years back. Sometimes people can't see past their own hurts, which makes them become (unknowingly sometimes)hurtful to others. Hope all is well with you Diane and I hope the start of the year has been kind to you my friend :)

dianne said...

Gracias, querido Juan por sus amables palabras, sí, me duele, pero voy a olvidar en el tiempo.
Abrazos
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Marty for your thoughtful words. No, I don't understand what has happened but I am writing this here as a last resort to tell him that I have not betrayed his trust just in case he thinks I have.
Yes the tears will stop and life will go on and I look forward to better days.
bisous
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Leovi for your kind words, yes, I have spoken the truth hoping that he will read this and understand...but I doubt that he will visit here.
Besos

JUAN FUENTES said...

Actualmente en mi pais és Invierno,pero si te sirve ese calor,lo puedes guardar para cuándo llegue tu Invierno.
Abrazos

dianne said...

Thank you dear Lucia for your lovely words, yes, a friend whom I love, not a great romance a friendship but still it hurts to lose a friend.
Yes he was worthy or so I thought.

I cannot stop thinking about that beautiful lion and his pain.

Warm greetings and kisses, Dianne.
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear April for coming here and for your most thoughtful and incisive words. Yes, sometimes people cannot see past their own hurts and unknowingly hurt the very people who are trying to help them.
These words are here as a last resort and my last attempt to try and explain that I have not betrayed his trust. There has been a misunderstanding and I don't want this to destroy a friendship which is important to me.
Yes, it is the same person you are thinking of, friends for most of these years.
I don't know that he will visit here and see this message but I am hoping he will.
Apart from this latest disaster my life remains very much the same, busy taking care of my son.
I hope that your health has improved my friend and also that of your daughter?
Take care dear April.

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Gracias, querido Juan , sí, es invierno en su país, pero su hermosa fotografía de ese paisaje de colores dorados traería mucho calor en los días fríos.
Cálidos abrazos de mi amigo
xoxoxo ♡

Giga said...

Sometimes I have good intentions, but it is thought about it until the end and could be a misunderstanding. Do not worry, most importantly, that you understand, and wrote an explanation. I think that will be fine. Yours.

Leovi said...

I think the important thing is that you find peace with yourself.
kisses

dianne said...

Thank you Giga dear for your kind words. Yes, there has been a misunderstanding, I have tried to explain, he should know in his heart that I would want him to be happy.
Warm greetings my friend.
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Leovi for your kind words, I have done nothing to hurt him and in his heart he should know this. I feel no guilt, just frustration that I have been brought into this and I wanted to tell him that none of the consequences were of my doing, it is difficult to explain to him when he has disappeared.
Besos
xoxoxo ♡

Leovi said...

Finding happiness is most important in life. Kisses.

Joop Zand said...

Dear Dianne

i agree with Leovi

Finding happiness is the most important in your life.

war greetings and kisses, Joop x

Paige Nicole said...

dearest dianne: so sorry your kindness was misinterpreted.

you are so sweet and to lose you
is the other's loss.

continue your good spirit and trust
in God's peace for us all.

xoxo

Linda said...

Dear Dianne, I am sorry you have been in so much pain..You are such a gentle soul...I wish your heart full of happiness and light, hugs! xo

Mirthe Duindam said...

Warm greetings for you Dianne! Mirthe

Leovi said...

Thank you very much Dianne.
Besos.

Elia said...

Your friends have written truths, I agree with the first,
you have to be strong, sometimes not understand anything, man is so complicated and tends to make everything more complicated,
I think how easy life would be doing every day much easier.
And it's easier but always complicate the feelings,
a special hug,
and I wish you find the light in your path.

besos^^

Betty Manousos said...

it's always sad when somebody you know becomes somebody you knew.
loosing a friend can be really tough,
but i can't help but wonder...is this person worth your friendship?

big hugs!
xo

foam said...

You know you have to let him go..

dianne said...

Thank you dear Leovi , yes happiness whether personal or shared is very important in life.
Besos
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Joop , yes, happiness is most important in life.

Warm greetings and kisses.

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank your dear Paige for your thoughtful words, this whole sorry situation has made me think twice about helping anyone else in future.

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Linda for your thoughtful words, my heart could certainly do with some happiness and light at the moment.
hugs
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Mirthe for your warm greetings.
Love, Dianne
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Leovi , I am the one to thank you for your kindness and I do.
Besos
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dearest Elia for your thoughtful words and kind advice.
It is all too complicated and I don't understand anything any more.
Life should not be this way for me when I was trying to help, my emotions are being torn apart because I don't know what is the truth and what is not.
Thank you for the special hug and I too wish I could find some light and truth on my path.
Besos
xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you dear Betty for your kind and understanding words. Do you remember that post of yours when you spoke about friends letting you down and what a disappointment they can be. That is how I feel, I feel I have been betrayed and I don't know the reason why.
Are either of them worth my friendship? That is question I keep asking myself and wehn I know the truth I will have my answer.

Big hugs

xoxoxo ♡

dianne said...

Thank you Foamy dear, I think I have already let him go, for he has left me without an explanation and no hope to hold onto ... but I would still like to know the truth.

xoxoxo ♡