The best thing you can do is simply not to say ANYTHING about it. Why are you two using blogs to air dirty washing! Use e-mail, phone, texts or whatever but there is zero need to make a blog a stadium for two people to tear each other apart. You don't need to ask us to visit his blogs, we are all adults and can make our own minds up what to do.
This is not said with any anger or malice but even now you are showing that you haven't let anything go. You are angry but still in love, it's why you can't stop pitying the guy.
Your blog is best for me (and I know I am often too busy to visit regularly sorry) when you discuss your thoughts about the place you live, your love of paintings and art, your ideas about nature/love and so on. Whilst we all use our own experiences to create such opinions, it doesn't mean that you need to publicly act it out ! :-))))
This is the first time I've had the chance to visit your blog in a week or so and ironically, I find yet another scrap has been going on :-(((
Come on guys, life is definitely about much greater things than a dead relationship surely ? I'm not a RELATE counsellor but I know they would tell you to really move on and SEVER the tie completely. You can't sail across new waters if your boat is still anchored in dirty mud!
More sunshine please, we have enough worries of our own LOL!!!!
Hi there. Just came by to thank you for you visit to my weird little world.
On arguments:I have been both thankful and embarrased by them for they have been the proving grounds of true friendship and the source of truly insipid exclamations which will haunt me till my dying day.
Thanks NYD for stopping by. Yes I wanted to visit your blog, as I have seen your comments over at Pug's blog...your blog wasn't so weird. I was curious as to why you signed as Blanche DuBois from 'A Streetcar Named Desire' on one of your comments at his blog, he suggested I check you out...I still don't understand why you used her name? Anyway arguments can go either way, they can clear the air or destroy a friendship...I don't know how this will end but thanks I hope it ends well. ♡
Yes Boneman you are a grown man, you are 58 and I wasnt feeling any pity for you, I felt bad that I let myself down by being drawn into this crass drama by even reacting to your post about me, your taunts at your blog and the crass drama that has ensued... and for what I ask myself.
I may have felt deeply about you once but I wasnt offering you a new infatuation...just my friendship...take it or leave it.
Thanks for dropping by again dear J Cosmo ... yes it has been a beautiful day today, the temperature was 24ºC, I went for a walk... Almost Spring...then Summer not far away, I hope the Summer won't be too hot and dry, we don't need any more bushfires. I hope the weather is fine where you live! ♡
Sweet Shweta Thank you dear, no it wasn't a relaxing weekend but I did go for for a nice long walk today...to clear my head and clear my thoughts...so that was good. I hope you had a fun weekend with your friends. You take care too :) Love Dianne xo ♡
Just popped by to check on you Dianne and found some very informative and telling posts on here.
The posts seem to support what I said in my first message.
I think a lot of people care about you Dianne and it would appear that there is some honest talking from others on here.
This is it - this is the time to cut the line from boat to anchor, which whilst still attached is causing your little boat to twist turn and pitch - it's bad for a boat, it's bad for you. Skipper your own boat for a while and visit loads of amazing new places and there, you will find so many great new people who will know exactly how to crew your boat for you!
At the moment, there is a flotilla of little boats all around you just waiting for you to cut free, so that they too can enjoy a voyage with you girl!
being a true enough statement, I shall endevor on helping. Though it may at first bring a sadness, please find it in your heart and friends to find more happiness.
The knife drawn, I slice any ropes binding the 'boats' as it were. Let the wind fill your sails and go.
I am pain to you, and you know it.
Me? I'm so barbarian like (truly. Look it up) I know noty where I go or how I'll get there, but, it matters not.
Whether pained or not, I set a stern chin into the direction and go now.
you are very kind to me and these are thoughtful words from you...I don't think I have to cut the line...it has already been done for me and my little boat has been 'scuttled'...sinking slowly. ♡
much sadness, I hope you came to this decision on your own without the prompting or influence from others...you are after all dealing with a real person here...not some animated, unfeeling character from cyberspace.
So you have cut the ropes and severed the ties that bound us...and I will sail off into the 'Great Beyond'... so I say Goodbye to you and farewell and wish you well... fair winds to thee
for the jokes, not really laughing at the moment but I appreciate you trying to cheer me up, you are so very good to me...yes dear a golden retriever would most definitely be a smart blonde. ♡
We've had a very hectic weekend, but lots of sunshine and a great, but busy time! Hope, your weekend was nice and sunny, too. afterall, you country is still full of sunshine in winter...
I have been over to your blog and left a comment, I am happy to share your friendship and friends award but as you can see I am running out of space on my side-bar. ♡
I was reading about your trip, the photos of the sunsets and the green vegetation are beautiful... sorry you didn't find your dream property this time...hopefully next time.
No I wouldn't say that I had a nice weekend,too much to think about but the weather was warm, actually unseasonably warm...I hope we don't have a really hot Summer with bushfires and choking smoke. Take care dear...♡
Thanks Phossy my dear... sounds good to me, I'm all for peace but I know I can't afford to buy the world a coke but I understand what you are saying. ♡
Thanks dear Leovi , yes they are beautiful flowers, the image was sent to me by a friend as he knows I love yellow flowers, they could be dandelions growing in a field where he lives. You have a good weekend too!
Hiya Dianne
ReplyDeleteThe best thing you can do is simply not to say ANYTHING about it. Why are you two using blogs to air dirty washing! Use e-mail, phone, texts or whatever but there is zero need to make a blog a stadium for two people to tear each other apart. You don't need to ask us to visit his blogs, we are all adults and can make our own minds up what to do.
This is not said with any anger or malice but even now you are showing that you haven't let anything go. You are angry but still in love, it's why you can't stop pitying the guy.
Your blog is best for me (and I know I am often too busy to visit regularly sorry) when you discuss your thoughts about the place you live, your love of paintings and art, your ideas about nature/love and so on. Whilst we all use our own experiences to create such opinions, it doesn't mean that you need to publicly act it out ! :-))))
This is the first time I've had the chance to visit your blog in a week or so and ironically, I find yet another scrap has been going on :-(((
Come on guys, life is definitely about much greater things than a dead relationship surely ? I'm not a RELATE counsellor but I know they would tell you to really move on and SEVER the tie completely. You can't sail across new waters if your boat is still anchored in dirty mud!
More sunshine please, we have enough worries of our own LOL!!!!
XXX
ha. perfect, Mr. Glyn.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment dear Glyn
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely correct and I have nothing more to say on the subject...too much has been said already. ♡
Jean, again this has nothing to do with you.
ReplyDeleteHi there.
ReplyDeleteJust came by to thank you for you visit to my weird little world.
On arguments:I have been both thankful and embarrased by them for they have been the proving grounds of true friendship and the source of truly insipid exclamations which will haunt me till my dying day.
Hope yours ends well.
Thanks NYD for stopping by.
ReplyDeleteYes I wanted to visit your blog, as I have seen your comments over at Pug's blog...your blog wasn't so weird.
I was curious as to why you signed as Blanche DuBois from 'A Streetcar Named Desire' on one of your comments at his blog, he suggested I check you out...I still don't understand why you used her name?
Anyway arguments can go either way, they can clear the air or destroy a friendship...I don't know how this will end but thanks I hope it ends well. ♡
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ReplyDeleteYes Boneman you are a grown man, you are 58 and I wasnt feeling any pity for you, I felt bad that I let myself down by being drawn into this crass drama by even reacting to your post about me, your taunts at your blog and the crass drama that has ensued... and for what I ask myself.
ReplyDeleteI may have felt deeply about you once but I wasnt offering you a new infatuation...just my friendship...take it or leave it.
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ReplyDeleteHope you are having a good weekend Dianne...
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Helene
ReplyDeleteI don't know about having a 'good' weekend but it has been 'surprisingly informative'. ♡
Nice weather coming to Sydney soon, I see...
ReplyDeleteThanks for dropping by again dear J Cosmo ...
ReplyDeleteyes it has been a beautiful day today, the temperature was 24ºC, I went for a walk...
Almost Spring...then Summer not far away, I hope the Summer won't be too hot and dry, we don't need any more bushfires.
I hope the weather is fine where you live! ♡
Dianne,
ReplyDeleteHope u had a relaxing weekend..
take care and :)
Love
Shwet
Sweet Shweta
ReplyDeleteThank you dear, no it wasn't a relaxing weekend but I did go for for a nice long walk today...to clear my head and clear my thoughts...so that was good.
I hope you had a fun weekend with your friends.
You take care too :)
Love
Dianne xo ♡
Just popped by to check on you Dianne and found some very informative and telling posts on here.
ReplyDeleteThe posts seem to support what I said in my first message.
I think a lot of people care about you Dianne and it would appear that there is some honest talking from others on here.
This is it - this is the time to cut the line from boat to anchor, which whilst still attached is causing your little boat to twist turn and pitch - it's bad for a boat, it's bad for you. Skipper your own boat for a while and visit loads of amazing new places and there, you will find so many great new people who will know exactly how to crew your boat for you!
At the moment, there is a flotilla of little boats all around you just waiting for you to cut free, so that they too can enjoy a voyage with you girl!
Now that's an order from the Rear Commander!!
being a true enough statement, I shall endevor on helping.
ReplyDeleteThough it may at first bring a sadness, please find it in your heart and friends to find more happiness.
The knife drawn, I slice any ropes binding the 'boats' as it were.
Let the wind fill your sails and go.
I am pain to you, and you know it.
Me?
I'm so barbarian like (truly. Look it up) I know noty where I go or how I'll get there, but, it matters not.
Whether pained or not, I set a stern chin into the direction and go now.
Goodbye, lil Missy.
did you hear about the guy with five dicks?
ReplyDeletehis pants fit like a glove.
why dont cannibals eat clowns?
they taste funny
what do you call a smart blonde?
a golden retriever
Thank you dear Glyn
ReplyDeleteyou are very kind to me and these are thoughtful words from you...I don't think I have to cut the line...it has already been done for me and my little boat has been 'scuttled'...sinking slowly. ♡
Yes Boney dear
ReplyDeletemuch sadness, I hope you came to this decision on your own without the prompting or influence from others...you are after all dealing with a real person here...not some animated, unfeeling character from cyberspace.
So you have cut the ropes and severed the ties that bound us...and I will sail off into the 'Great Beyond'...
so I say Goodbye to you and farewell and wish you well...
fair winds to thee
Lil Missy...
Thank you my sweet chickory
ReplyDeletefor the jokes, not really laughing at the moment but I appreciate you trying to cheer me up, you are so very good to me...yes dear a golden retriever would most definitely be a smart blonde. ♡
Love to you... xo
Thanks for your vist and I'm glad you liked the award.
ReplyDeletehere's another one:
http://anders-wohnen.blogspot.com/2009/08/up-north-gen-norden.html
We've had a very hectic weekend, but lots of sunshine and a great, but busy time! Hope, your weekend was nice and sunny, too. afterall, you country is still full of sunshine in winter...
Thank you dear Sarah Sofia
ReplyDeleteI have been over to your blog and left a comment, I am happy to share your friendship and friends award but as you can see I am running out of space on my side-bar. ♡
I was reading about your trip, the photos of the sunsets and the green vegetation are beautiful... sorry you didn't find your dream property this time...hopefully next time.
No I wouldn't say that I had a nice weekend,too much to think about but the weather was warm, actually unseasonably warm...I hope we don't have a really hot Summer with bushfires and choking smoke.
Take care dear...♡
All we are saying is give peace a chance and buy the world a coke, or something like that.
ReplyDeleteThanks Phossy my dear...
ReplyDeletesounds good to me, I'm all for peace but I know I can't afford to buy the world a coke but I understand what you are saying. ♡
Beautiful flowers are similar to Dandelion. Have a great weekend! kisses
ReplyDeleteThanks dear Leovi , yes they are beautiful flowers, the image was sent to me by a friend as he knows I love yellow flowers, they could be dandelions growing in a field where he lives.
ReplyDeleteYou have a good weekend too!
Besos xoxoxo ♡