tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post4052056728527162964..comments2023-12-12T18:29:11.390+11:00Comments on Here Is My Heart: JEALOUSY & RAGEdiannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-37799789649584417312008-10-08T19:28:00.000+11:002008-10-08T19:28:00.000+11:00David my dear, thank you so much for sharing with...<B> David </B> my dear, thank you so much for sharing with us, that is a truly beautiful poem.<BR/><BR/>Yes,we must be happy with whom we are and within ourselves before we can share our life with another.We do carry the past within us, it is part of what makes us whom we are.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry that you lost such a wonderful friend, she sounds kind of special to me and its lovely that she is still in your thoughts. ♥ xoxoxo <BR/><BR/>Hugzz to you too my friend. :)diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-8249821938092133932008-10-08T12:35:00.000+11:002008-10-08T12:35:00.000+11:00My dearest DianneI have a wonderful friend, the ni...My dearest Dianne<BR/><BR/>I have a wonderful friend, the nicest person that I have ever met or likely to come accross again, and although she passed away many years ago, I still consider her to be with me in the thoughts we shared, the times we spent together, and the wisdom she left me with. one of her favourite poems I will share with you and our friends on here. Maybe more men (amd women) should know this poem and maybe abide by it's message. Then again, some people just don't get messages at all. I hope you enjoy.<BR/><BR/>When you get what you want in your struggle for self, and the world makes you king for a day.<BR/><BR/>Then go to the mirror and look at yourself and see what the man has to say.<BR/><BR/>For it isn't a man's father, mother or wife, who's judgement upon him must pass. <BR/><BR/>The fellow whose verdict counts most in his life, is the man staring back from the glass.<BR/><BR/>He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest, for he's with you clear to the end. <BR/><BR/>And you've passed your most difficult test, if the man in the glass if your friend. <BR/><BR/>I hope you enjoy this little poem as I have lived by it over the years. <BR/><BR/>And the other thing for you to remember ths this<BR/><BR/>We know that we cannot live in the past, but remember, The past lives within us !<BR/><BR/><BR/>Hugzzz <BR/>DavidTonkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18377678025940443624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-9401934564932175592008-10-08T09:41:00.000+11:002008-10-08T09:41:00.000+11:00Boney my dearest one, you are so funny, where do ...<B> Boney </B> my dearest one, you are so funny, where do you find this humour of yours?<BR/>Yes no-one had better mess with our K9 or they might regret it. :) ♥ xoxdiannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-13065116612576508272008-10-08T09:33:00.000+11:002008-10-08T09:33:00.000+11:00Thanks K9 , that's good advice, I am quite conten...Thanks <B> K9 </B>, that's good advice, I am quite content with my life and mostly happy with who I am, although I guess there is always room for improvement. I strive to be the best person I can be, not necessarily in a competitive way but on a more personal level and we learn more about life and ourselves every day.<BR/><BR/>I find that the cycles in my life are changing, as they do and find myself questioning more but not finding all of the answers. I have found that I am lonely and have a need for a close friendship with someone and some love would be welcomed.<BR/>But I can survive without it, I have had to for many years.<BR/>And dont worry about that beautiful Trout girl ever replacing you, she knows shes got the best Momma she could ever have. :) xoxox ♥diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-47476911561815013272008-10-08T09:22:00.000+11:002008-10-08T09:22:00.000+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10484125049735629611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-76408243457955991112008-10-08T09:18:00.000+11:002008-10-08T09:18:00.000+11:00Robert ,thank you for your comment, what you say i...<B> Robert </B>,thank you for your comment, what you say is true.<BR/>My journey into the darkness of jealousy was on a personal level and I am ashamed of myself for having let it into my soul and for hurting someone who I care for.♥ xoxox :)diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-39817403165667434182008-10-08T02:28:00.000+11:002008-10-08T02:28:00.000+11:00my best advice: be as whole as you can on your own...my best advice: be as whole as you can on your own. if my husband decided he preferred another to me there isnt a damn thing that i can do about it. im not that critical about fidelity though; a solid friendship between lovers is far more important to me.<BR/><BR/>however if the dog prefers another over me-then im am heartbroken.sparringK9https://www.blogger.com/profile/08031137344229440004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-33291078162545084422008-10-08T00:15:00.000+11:002008-10-08T00:15:00.000+11:00You are so right: if the world could "cure" itself...You are so right: if the world could "cure" itself from jealousy, we'd be treading in utopia. But from a personal level, jealousy can poison our minds and our relationships. Overcoming it, and ignoring it, are the only path to happiness.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17989947946488835186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-74833714349335105372008-10-07T23:14:00.000+11:002008-10-07T23:14:00.000+11:00Neither do I Lil Lambie , its a bad thing and mak...Neither do I <B> Lil Lambie </B>, its a bad thing and makes you say things you wouldnt normally say<BR/>that are hurtful and regrettable, then people dont like you any more...I know...♥diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-67063525962528722782008-10-07T22:15:00.000+11:002008-10-07T22:15:00.000+11:00I don't like to get jealous.I don't like to get jealous.Little Lambhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06874577293821464232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-83655658771248224752008-10-07T18:29:00.000+11:002008-10-07T18:29:00.000+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-61108780601073900222008-10-07T17:51:00.000+11:002008-10-07T17:51:00.000+11:00Jeannie my dear, yes that was probably smart of yo...<B> Jeannie </B>my dear, yes that was probably smart of you to give Boney (God love him) that advice or he could find himself stuck in an 'oestrogen' minefield.Lol ;) ♥ xoxoxdiannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-2546906670989641552008-10-07T16:46:00.000+11:002008-10-07T16:46:00.000+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10484125049735629611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-76700351886719466252008-10-07T15:48:00.000+11:002008-10-07T15:48:00.000+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10484125049735629611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-70999405994317539092008-10-07T15:38:00.000+11:002008-10-07T15:38:00.000+11:00Smart move, Berry :-)Smart move, Berry :-)Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099808690177823190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-32816171381978232142008-10-07T15:26:00.000+11:002008-10-07T15:26:00.000+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.bonemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10484125049735629611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-46794039437965390952008-10-07T10:52:00.000+11:002008-10-07T10:52:00.000+11:00Dear Anna-Lys, do we ever really know someone, a l...Dear <B>Anna-Lys</B>, do we ever <I>really</I> know someone, a lot of our perception of our partner is based on what<I> we </I> see or <I>want </I> to see and our trust in them.<BR/>Yes sometimes we project the beauty and loveliness in ourselves onto them creating a rosier picture and sometimes our belief in them does not reflect reality.<BR/>The storybook princes of our imagination are sometimes just frogs. ♥ xoxoxo :)diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-57711732869487651552008-10-07T03:53:00.000+11:002008-10-07T03:53:00.000+11:00In the moment we think we know someone, we discove...In the moment we think we know someone, we discover that it was our own fantasy we have been friend with.<BR/>So maybe, males feel that we don't care to really know them? So they keep searching to be seen from the inside by using the outside?!?ANNA-LYShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03503734017177492952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-88060388348422737032008-10-06T21:06:00.000+11:002008-10-06T21:06:00.000+11:00Thanks Foamie my sweet friend, well whoever he i...Thanks <B> Foamie </B> my sweet friend, well whoever he is he had better hurry up and find me 'cause I'm not getting any younger... ;)<BR/><BR/>Thanks too for stopping by I missed you this morning. :) xoxox ♥diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-71950010153551857532008-10-06T20:57:00.000+11:002008-10-06T20:57:00.000+11:00you are such a warmhearted loving woman, dianne .....you are such a warmhearted loving woman, dianne ..<BR/>i'm sure that one of these days the right man will realize that.<BR/>XOdianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02043832242080478196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-13102550619347227112008-10-06T12:33:00.000+11:002008-10-06T12:33:00.000+11:00Yes Corby my dear, that is so true.I seem to att...Yes <B> Corby </B> my dear, that is so true.<BR/><BR/>I seem to attract the ones I dont want and the one I want eludes me, why does love have to be so difficult.As I said over at your blog: <BR/>"The river of love is passing me by and I dont think I will ever get to swim in its waters again".<BR/> <BR/>When it is right it is right, so why cant some guys wake up and see this, its so frustrating waiting around for them to make up their minds and leave you hanging in suspense. ♥ XO :)diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-71913352734713355202008-10-06T12:16:00.000+11:002008-10-06T12:16:00.000+11:00When it is right it is right, I believe this even ...When it is right it is right, I believe this even though it mostly drives me crazy lately...<BR/><BR/>-CorbyCorbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17197792699767451216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-17177251544539020512008-10-06T12:14:00.000+11:002008-10-06T12:14:00.000+11:00/t. my dear, wipe away your tears Puggles will be...<B> /t. </B> my dear, wipe away your tears Puggles will be OK, he has his new 'passion girl' to woo.♥ :) xoxdiannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-65077743790774751442008-10-06T12:12:00.000+11:002008-10-06T12:12:00.000+11:00Now Puggles my love that is quite a sad story wi...Now <B> Puggles </B> my love that is quite a sad story with your little 'fry girl', life seems to do that to us all the time.<BR/>In a way you have done yourself a favour by crossing the mall parking lot to the Jamba juice bar, much more healthy for you than those fries and you have found a new passion girl, you can easily get rid of that guy with the clip board by wooing her with your many charms. :)<BR/>Thank you my love this has helped, watch out for the signs and when one window closes another window of opportunity may open, that's if you're very lucky.<BR/>Do you think maybe I should start hanging around our local 'Juice' bar and some health conscious,good looking guy might just happen to jog into my life? ♥ xoxoxo :)diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78232034748039549.post-85212846641073511832008-10-06T11:58:00.000+11:002008-10-06T11:58:00.000+11:00Dear Anna-Lys I dont mind them looking, that's j...Dear <B> Anna-Lys </B> I dont mind them looking, that's just a natural thing for males, I just object when they take the looking further when they are either in a relationship or married...but I guess that's the way some guys are they just want to take it that step further, they cant help themselves. :)<BR/><BR/>If I am in a relationship, I am with that person 100% no exceptions so I wouldn't be good at dating a couple of guys at a time and I must admit my experience has been limited, that's just the way I am.<BR/><BR/>Its not that guys dont notice me, I get offers all of the time, two strangers asked me to have coffee last week and asked for my phone number but I couldn't do that, its too risky, its difficult to meet people but I guess we dont really know anyone when we first meet them, it would be nice to meet someone through friends or something like that. ♥ xoxoxo ;)diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.com