I have removed the original content of this post, it was not one of my better ideas. I should not have to reach out to you my friend and explain myself to you. You should know me by now and realise that I would not do anything to interfere in your potential happiness. You have disappeared, I have been trying to contact you, there has been a misunderstanding and I am not responsible for any of your unhappiness. You know I was brought into this situation unwillingly and without any thought for my own feelings I tried to help you and your new friend. I am sorry it has not worked out as you had wished. I had no influence on her decision.
This unfortunate situation has been going on for weeks and in trying to help you both I am now sad, confused, ill and I don't know what to believe any more.
Take care, Dianne